When preparing your vows…
Start early… any time you think of something you love about your significant other, or a way they make you feel special, jot it down.
Read other people’s vows online for inspiration!
Talk with your fiancé about the tone and direction of your vows—this doesn’t mean you have to tell them what you’re going to say, but you can if that’s something the two of you agree on—
Just be sure that you’re on the same page. Will the vows be funny? Romantic? Poetic? Raw? Traditional? Many couples opt to keep them somewhat traditional, just adding a personal flare at the end.